Happy Weekend!

Happy Halloween weekend everyone! Today is the annual Halloween parade at Sophie’s daycare – and if you haven’t ever seen dozens of babies and toddlers in full costume all in the same place, well, it’s pretty much the cutest thing ever. This year, Sophie will be rocking a homemade costume of sorts: she’ll be a snail, which is just about the extent of my limits with a newborn at home. We don’t get many trick-or-treaters on our street, so we’ll be hanging out with friends and their adorable daughter tonight to help them pass out candy. Best of both worlds! But in the meantime…

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Photo by Shannon Kirsten

…a few links for your weekend!

This week on Oh So Beautiful Paper:

Check back soon for this week’s cocktail! I hope you all have a wonderful weekend, and I’ll see you back here next week! xoxo

How to Choose Cocktail Glasses

The most frequent comment we receive on our cocktail posts is this: where do we get those beautiful cocktail glasses? It’s a good question: the perfect drink deserves the perfect glass. You’re not going to ruin a delicious drink by using the wrong glass, but using the right glass can definitely enhance your experience. The good news is, we’re starting our own Etsy shop, Liquorary, to share some our best finds from over our years of cocktail posts. We’ve scoured antique stores and shows, thrift shops, estate sales, and flea markets. We’ve searched forgotten dusty corners and overlooked shelves for our cocktail glasses. We’ve found classic coupes and flutes, midcentury highballs, and a load of other gorgeous glasses that are perfect for your next drink.

So if you’re going to put care into making a recipe, whether it’s a classic or own of ours or own of your own, then it’s worth putting some care into your glassware.

How to Choose Cocktail Glassware by Oh So Beautiful Paper

Illustration by Jillian Evelyn / Hand Lettering by Maria Filar for Oh So Beautiful Paper

The Cocktail Glass

The modern cocktail glass is iconic: a slender stem, with a cone-shaped bowl and wide rim. Also known as the Martini glass, the modern cocktail glass is an Art Deco homage to the classic cocktail glass. And it’s a total disaster. It’s poorly balanced, and its shallow bowl and sharply angled sides are practically designed to slosh your drink all of you. And, with few exceptions, it’s way too big – so either you’re going to end up with a half-filled glass, or you’re going to mix a huge drink that’s way too big and will warm up before you can finish it. Instead, you want something like this: The-Robert-Frost-Cocktail-Recipe-OSBP-6

The Robert Frost

This is a vintage cocktail glass, the vintage shape our of which our modern Martini glasses evolved. Its sides are less shallow than a modern glass, making it harder to spill. Its flat-bottomed bowl gives it a better balance, leaving it harder to knock over. Its stem will keep your warm hand away from your drink. And its smaller size – just four to six ounces – is a perfect fit for most drinks. No super-sized, watered down and warmed up cocktails need apply. All-spirits drinks, like the Old Fashioned, the Martini, or the Manhattan, are perfect for the smaller end of that range, while many Sours will fit in the larger end. These aren’t easy to find these days. I’ve seen some from Libbey Glass that fit the bill, but your best bet is to go vintage. Antique stores and shows, yard and estate sales, and online auctions can be a pain to hunt through, but are your best bet for the best glassware.

Coupes

The coupe was first invented as a champagne glass in the late 1600s, but it’s actually pretty terrible at that job. It’s wide brim lets the champagne release all of its carbonation too quickly. But it probably didn’t take too long for anyone to figure out that the coupe has a much better role: serving cocktails. It plays pretty much the same role that the classic cocktail glass used to play: well balanced, easy to hold without spilling, and elegant.

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Raised in a Red Barn

It’s much easier to find beautiful antique and vintage coupes, and there’s tremendous variety in shape, color, and design. There are also some modern coupes that are both beautiful and just the right size; check out Cocktail Kingdom‘s selection, especially their 3.75 and 6 oz sizes. Coupes are perfect for the same drinks as the classic cocktail glass, all-spirits drinks and Sours.

Flutes

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The Brandy Crusta

Unlike the coupe, the flute actually is pretty good for champagne. Its narrow bowl reduces the drink’s surface area and retains carbonation for longer. This makes the flute ideal for any drinks that incorporate Champagne or another carbonated ingredient, like the French 75. It’s also pretty useful for recipes with big garnishes, like the whole lemon peel in the Brandy Crusta. We’re still partial to vintage, but there’s a big array of new flutes available, so these should be easy to find. Aim for three to four ounces, and no more than six.

Lowballs

Signature Cocktail Recipe: Sunset Mai Tai by Oh So Beautiful Paper (6)

Sunset Mai Tai

Lowballs – also called Old Fashioneds, tumblers, and rocks glasses – are low glasses, with wide rims and heavy bottoms. As the name and shape suggest, they’re perfect for any drink that you build in the glass, layering and muddling ingredients, like the Old Fashioned, Caipirinha, or Smash. Like the flute, there are tons of good vintage and new versions available, and some pretty cool looking reproductions of classic designs, so these should be easy to find. Look for glasses between six and ten ounces.

Highballs

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The highball is the Laurel to the Old Fashioned’s Hardy: tall and narrow, perfect for bigger drinks (also known as long drinks) built in the glass. At eight to twelve ounces, the highball is your go-to for drinks like the Mojito, the Cobbler, and the Rickey, drinks with lots of ice and muddled ingredients. (The Collins glass is slightly taller and narrower yet than the highball, but there’s quite a bit of overlap between the two styles so I tend to use the terms interchangeably.) As with the Old Fashioned, vintage designs are pretty easy to find, but there are also lots of new and reproductions available too these days.

Sherbets

Frozen St-Germain Daiquiri Cocktail Recipe by Oh So Beautiful Paper / Photo by Sweet Root Village

Frozen St-Germain Daiquiri

Looking generally something like a stocky coupe, the sherbet glass is stemmed with a broad, deep bowl and thick glass sides. As the name suggests, the sherbet started life as a dessert glass for sherbets and ice cream. They’re plentiful at antique shows and flea markets, far more so than any proper cocktail glasses, though I can’t tell if that’s because a variety of large-bowled glassware is getting lumped together as “sherbets.” In any case, the more delicate of them can often serve as good stand-ins for coupes, and the larger are often perfect for frozen and Tiki drinks.

Punch Bowls

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Alliance Club Punch

I’m no expert – I’ve only made punch a few times, though always to great acclaim – but I do know you should look for big punch bowls (2-3 quarts should be enough for spirits, citrus, and ice) and tiny punch glasses (2-3 ounces should do it). The idea is to encourage your guests to make lots of trips to the punch bowl to refill their glasses, making the punch bowl a center of interaction.

The List Goes On

I’m already over a thousand words and I feel like I’ve barely scratched the surface. Mugs for Moscow Mules and Blue Blazers? Cordials? Hurricane glasses? There’s still a huge array of glasses, especially specialty glasses for individual drinks, that we haven’t even talked about at all. And that’s ok. It’s easy to fall down the rabbit hole of glassware when you don’t need to. Yes, the Hurricane is named after a glass that looks just like a hurricane lamp. And you know what? A Hurricane served in a highball or a sherbet glass will taste just as good. Looking for the exact glass for every drink can leave you with overflowing cabinets and an empty wallet. Now, if someone wanted to get you some niche glasses as a gift, I’m not saying to turn them down…

Photo Credits: Frozen St-Germain Daiquiri by Sweet Root Village / all others by Nole Garey for Oh So Beautiful Paper

Happy Weekend!

Happy Friday everyone! Today little Alice turns one month old! With Sophie, the newborn stage felt like an eternity – but we wondered if things would be different the second time around since we (now) know how fleeting these early days really are. I’m still not the biggest fan of the newborn stage (I’m much happier when babies start smiling – usually around 8 weeks), but it does feel like these first (hard) few weeks have just flown by! We’ll be celebrating Alice’s first month birthday with take out and doughnuts tonight – but in the meantime…

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Photo (and printable invitation!) via A Fabulous Fete

…a few links for your weekend!

This week on Oh So Beautiful Paper:

Check back soon for a very special cocktail post! I hope you all have a wonderful weekend, and I’ll see you back here next week! xoxo

Guest Post: Jen of The Haystack Needle

I’ve asked some of my favorite creative mamas to help out while I’m away with our new baby. Today, the wonderful Jen from The Haystack Needle is sharing some thoughts on motherhood – specifically some things she’s learned as a mama of two! Thanks Jen! –Nole

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Hello! I’m Jen and feel lucky to have connected with the ever-inspiring Nole through blogging (back when I did blog.) I’m now a freelance writer/editor working from home and mostly being a mama to Juniper (3) and Leo (18 months). My kids are 20 months apart and are the sweetest spirits who keep me feeling light and searching for little moments of amazing in each day. We just moved to Portland, Maine, from Brooklyn back in January. And I have to say, Portland has stolen my heart. It was such a dream spending this summer going blueberry picking, swimming in lakes, making sand castles at the beach, flying kites, loading up on lobster rolls by a lighthouse, and feeding goats at the farm where we get our milk. I was mourning the end of summer, till I remembered we have apple cider doughnuts to look forward to. Location-wise, I will say it’s incredibly easier being a mama to two when you don’t have to get everyone up and down three flights of stairs (and deal with getting to your car that stores your stroller being two blocks away thanks to alternate side street parking) like we did back in Brooklyn. But no matter the location, two little ones can feel like triple the chaos in moments. Here’s what I’ve tried to pass onto friends moving into being a mama to two.

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+ Go on dates with your kid. I don’t mean this in the formal way. A date could simply be curling up on the sofa with a longish book that you wouldn’t read while your younger one’s attached to you. It’s the simplest advice and it helped us through hurdles in the beginning, when I was nursing nonstop and couldn’t actively play with her the same way, and even now when random toddler tensions build up (and then I remember, wait! When was the last time I got 20 minutes of quality alone time with her?). Kids need so little to refuel with your love. And you’ll miss your alone time with your first and need to reconnect. You’ll know you’re desperately in need of a date if you think back on what you’ve said in the last day to your oldest, and if it’s a lot of don’ts, let’s not, and let’s go. Then yes, you need a date. It could be as simple as looking through old photos together or taking a walk where she takes the lead on how fast you go. But, I found it needs to be you and her, no babywearing the younger one, or half looking at your phone. True together time. And then I found the meltdowns and odd behavior calm down for a bit.

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+ Don’t forget the tricks that worked when she was little. I’ll never forget the day that putting Juniper in a sling saved me. And I’m not talking about when she was a newborn and I got to have my first hot meal or do some laundry. I’m talking about two-and-a-half year old Juniper who was having a tough moment out with me and Leo, and it was dissolving fast. Leo, by default as the younger one who wasn’t walking yet, always was in the carrier and Juniper would walk or ride in the stroller. And then, as you learn with kids 2+ years in age, having options always helps, and I thought to offer her the sling in the heat of the moment. And that’s when I heard it in her voice. That she’d been missing some mama love. She happily went in the sling and just wanted to be held for a short time. And then all was calm. That’s repeated itself for us, and it always works. I wore Juni in wraps, carriers, and slings from birth through most of my pregnancy with Leo (in a back carry). But as soon as Leo arrived, of course he was the one I carried. It took me a few months to figure out she missed that part of our relationship.

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+ Be positive in how you talk about your kids, especially when they’re around. We’re all blogging and snapping beautiful Instagrams of our little loves. But I find it’s so easy, especially when you’re hanging around other mamas, to endlessly talk about how hard it is or how much your little guy sleeps or how tough it is when your two-year-old doesn’t want to get dressed in the morning. Yes, we all need to release some of the pressure and know that we’re not alone in the challenges of parenting. But I’ve tried to spend less time talking about the hard stuff, especially on playdates or on the playground. Because in a way, I think it sets up this tone of you against the kids or one kid against the other (since it’s so easy to talk about how different your kids are), rather than celebrating the moments that are pure awesome. And there are so many! I’ve read about how bad it is for a marriage to cut your partner down in conversation with someone else, and I think it applies to kids too. Sometimes just talking positive helps. I have a lot of days where I’m zapped, but those are the days I try to remember to say to my two, “hey we’re a team this morning, the three of us, let’s go have a good day.” And then there’s a high five and we’re off.

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+ Nothing is permanent. Do what works for you now. As with everyone, my kids sleep, eat, play, and have gone through their first years in totally different ways. It’s easy (especially thanks to grandparent schools of thought) to think if you do this, you’ll never be able to do that or transition them out of this or that. I disagree. Do what you need to survive right now, not what you think you have to be doing because you’re afraid of some permanent habit. Especially with regards to sleeping arrangements. Just follow what works for you, and when it doesn’t work, change it up and it will naturally move on to the next phase. You’re the best expert on your kids, anyhow.

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+ Say less. Once your littlest is moving around, the sibling relationship really starts to shine. I’ve found the easiest way to help support my kids bonding is to not play referee. Don’t intervene with little squabbles or minor sharing/pushing moments and let them work it out themselves. For the most part, they do and no one gets hurt. And that’s when you find your 15-month old running in circles on squares of felt in a fit of giggles with your 3-year-old because they just made up some new game, just them.

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Oh and prepare to have your heart melt every time they hug each other, read books together, or you watch your oldest feed your little guy strawberries that she just sliced for him. And then you’ll really feel silly that you spent all that energy worrying about not being able to focus on your oldest child after your second arrives. I’m pretty sure Juniper would say I gave her the best gift ever with our little Leo. And I would agree.

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A Day in the Life with Liz from Linda & Harriett

I’ve asked some of my favorite creative mamas to help out while I’m away with our new baby. Today we get a look behind the scenes at a day in the life of one of my favorite stationers – and mama of two – Liz from Linda & Harriett! –Nole

Liz Libre Artist and Founder of Linda and Harriett

Photo by Kristin Gladney

6:15 am
Wake up to take our dog for a run in the park. I hear Griffin singing to himself in his room, so I go in & ask him if he wants to watch Arthur while I go for my run. Of course he says yes! This way, he won’t wake up my husband John for at least another 28 minutes, and won’t be too bummed (at all, really) that I’m leaving. He still asks for a kiss & a hug – and lately has been pretty fierce with both which makes my heart swell.

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7:30 am
Back from my run and find John, Griffin and Louise all eating breakfast. Get ready for the day. For some reason, the morning is the one time of day where it doesn’t even occur to me to look at email, texts or Instagram. The rest of day, not so much.

9 am
Griffin’s preschool hasn’t started yet, so I leave for work a bit later, once our beloved nanny arrives. Always with an iced coffee in tow. It’s supposed to be 90 degrees today!

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9:30 am
At the studio and write seven cards to go with the seven care packages I’m mailing to Sweden today – to thank John’s aunts and cousins for hosting us for a week this summer. I’m sending them all the L&H Seasonal Card Box Set, one of my favorite gifts to give. John’s aunt & uncle who hosted us the whole time (and even gave us their bed!) is also getting two mugs & kitchen towels from More & Co., my favorite online shop for buying gifts.

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10 am
My assistant Sarah is busy fulfilling orders. We have our big 25% off sale this week, so it’s busy around here. Our USPS guy is on vacation and we’re trying to figure out how to get these out, since scheduling a pickup doesn’t seem to be working. Our building neighbor, Tattly, nicely offers to send their USPS woman up to us. And it works! Phew!

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10:15 am
Call with Dara from Simply Framed, the online frame shop we’ve partnered with for our new prints. They do such a fantastic job & I’m thrilled to be working with them to offer my customers high quality framing. Dara is working on a project and has asked me to get involved. I love her energy and am fueled by it.

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11:15 am
Emailing a lot! We’re trying to find a new studio space because our current building in Dumbo isn’t renewing leases. I’ve been looking for four months and finally found the right one. So I’m going back and forth a lot right now with the sales rep as well as my husband – who, thankfully, is way more real estate savvy than I am (and also thankfully has a ton of patience for me being way less savvy). Fingers crossed it works out!

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12:00 pm
A text comes through from Molly at Chairloom. It’s a photo of a love seat she’s just reupholstered in the custom textile design I did for her – an Alexander Calder inspired Philadelphia print. A pretty thrilling moment to see it come to life! I text her back immediately with lots of high five and praise emojis, and then secretly send it to a few family and friends who I know will appreciate it. I share it with my assistant Sarah. We’re both excited.

12:15 pm
Lunch at my desk. Open faced sandwich: (always open face – which to me feels like I get two sandwiches!) sourdough with avocado, sea salt and cheddar. It’s easy & never fails to the spot. Siggis yogurt. Seltzer. This is the one time during the day at the studio where I check my favorite sites, like Oh So Beautiful Paper 🙂 or Cup of Jo or NY Magazine. Because I like to be home with my kids in the morning and evening, my time at the studio is limited, so I try to stay focused on work while I’m there.

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12:45 pm
Finally sit down with my brush, ink & lots of paper — my staples. I have been silently working on a big project that will debut next year, and I am trying to develop as much work as possible for upcoming meetings with my partner. I did some drawings today that made my heart race (like literally beat faster – no joke) which is always a good sign and motivates me to keep at it.

4:15 pm
Leave studio early to take Griffin on a play date. School hasn’t started yet, and it’s not often that he & I have one on one time anymore, so I jump at the chance when my friend asks if we want to come over. She whips up a batch of kale chips while our kids build garages out of magna tiles and throw airplanes around the room. On the way home, I feel grateful for the flexibility to do this this afternoon.

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6:30 pm
Return home to hear hip hop blaring from the bathroom where John is giving Louise a bath. This is a common bath time ritual for John. He loves all kinds of music and plays it during bath time on a portable speaker, so it can get pretty loud. Because of these bath time sing-a-longs, Griffin can now accurately identify images of Bob Marley and Toots & the Maytals.

7:30 pm
Our kids are generally pretty good at going to bed, which allows us some nice down time. Tonight, we order in Indian food, which despite the 85 degree heat, we’re both craving and haven’t had in months. While we wait for it, we clean up a bit and then hop on our laptops. I see an email from the sales office of the new studio to say that our application has been approved – hooray! One step closer to a new space.

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8:30 pm
I shamelessly find watching tv to be a great way to wind down, (maybe with a glass of wine too!) but we have been in a funk lately. Orange is the New Black, House of Cards – we need to get on it! John suffers through a DVR’d episode of the RHONY Reunion show with me, which is pretty bad, but pretty good. But pretty bad. Buuuut, pretty good. I take this welcomed brainless time to look over our calendar for the fall and put some deadlines in place for work. I can’t function without a deadline on the Google Calendar. I also place an order with soap.com — my go-to source for all our baby & household needs. I even buy my fancy mascara through them! I don’t know what I would do without online shopping. It’s pretty much this working mom’s dream come true.

10 pm
I love reading magazines through Next Issue on my iPad every night before bed. Tonight I read the Obsession with Foxcatcher in New York Magazine, and it has me excited to see the movie – which takes place near where I grew up.

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10:45 pm
Reading before bed always makes me so sleepy. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Thanks for having me, Nole!

Top Photo by Kristin Gladney; all others by Liz Libré of Linda & Harriett