How to Host a Backyard Fire Pit Party

As if a bathroom renovation wasn’t enough, my husband and I are getting ready to do a bit of work in our backyard! When we first moved in almost three years ago, we were thrilled to have a little outdoor space where we could grow some plants and entertain friends. I’ve been working on the garden, but we’re planning to make our backyard a little bit more friendly for the entertaining part. And with these cold winter nights, I’ve got backyard fire pit parties on the brain! A warm fire, cozy blankets, and s’mores, all while sipping a mug of something hot and delicious? Winter is the perfect time of year to invite a few friends over and hang out in the backyard around a fire pit. Here are a few ideas for how to host a backyard fire pit party – on cold winter nights or any time of year!

How to Host a Backyard Fire Pit Party / Oh So Beautiful Paper

1. The Invitations
A backyard fire pit party is the perfect opportunity for a whimsical rustic invitation. And since it’s your backyard, it doesn’t need to be too serious. I love the idea of handwritten text on cotton paper with rustic branch and leaf illustrations. Add some leather cord and vintage tree postage stamps and you’re good to go!

2. The Fire Pit
So, obviously you can’t have a backyard fire pit party without the fire pit. But you have options! You can go with something more permanent – built of stone or installed in a backyard patio – or something a bit more mobile that can be moved around a yard or patio as needed.

3. Cozy Blankets
Whether it’s the middle of winter or the dog days of summer, the night air is bound to have some chill. Help your guests stay cozy with some wool camp blankets.

4. String Lights
Photo Credit: Stephen Michael Photography via Country Living
No need to go overboard with decorations. Some additional soft lighting around the backyard should be all you need. I’m a big fan of white string lights and globe patio lights for backyard get togethers.

5. Sage Bundles
Did you know that sage helps keep mosquitos away when thrown into a fire? Super handy for midsummer get togethers!

6. S’mores
Photo Credit: My Life At Playtime
I think anyone who sits next to a fire automatically gets the urge to roast marshmallows! Berry baskets come in quite handy for making s’mores kits for your guests.

7. The Drinks
Mugs and fire pit parties go hand in hand. Enamel mugs are perfect for everything from hot chocolate to a warm Mulled Winter Sangria!

p.s. For those of you as obsessed with pink and gold as I am, I put a collection together with some pink and gold glassware! A few champagne, water, and wine glasses to make the prettiest glassware cabinet EVER.

Also, How to Host a Modern Tiki Party, What to Grow in a Cocktail Garden, and a recipe for Mulled Winter Sangria.

Photo Credit: Allan Zepeda for Scribe Winery

Tropical Hawaiian Calligraphy Wedding Invitations

I’m still in love with the tropical foliage trend, and what could possibly be a more perfect application of this gorgeous motif than invitations for a wedding in Hawaii?? Anna from Cast Calligraphy created these tropical Hawaiian calligraphy wedding invitations for a sophisticated and modern wedding in Kauai. I’m absolutely loving the delicate letterpress printed palm leaf pattern on the invitation – and of course Anna’s gorgeous calligraphy throughout the suite!

Tropical Hawaiian Calligraphy Wedding Invitations by Cast Calligraphy /  Photo by Orange Photographie / Oh So Beautiful Paper

From Anna: When Portia and Daniel mentioned their wedding was in Kauai I was immediately brainstorming ideas for their tropical invitation. I had been vacationing there for years and knew the character of the island. I also knew that Portia and Daniel were looking for a sophisticated and modern invitation suite, with simple imagery and clean lines.

Tropical Hawaiian Calligraphy Wedding Invitations by Cast Calligraphy /  Photo by Orange Photographie / Oh So Beautiful Paper

We landed on a neutral color palette with hints of yellow and green. The invitations, printed by Birdwalk Press, were letterpress printed lightly with the palm tree leaves in a light buttery yellow color and with the custom calligraphed text on top. The rsvp card was printed digitally on a matching pearl white paper, with a vintage pineapple image to pay homage to the island’s local treasured fruit.

Tropical Hawaiian Calligraphy Wedding Invitations by Cast Calligraphy /  Photo by Orange Photographie / Oh So Beautiful Paper

The envelopes matched perfectly and were calligraphed in white ink and addressed to their list of close family and friends. A rubber stamp was made to stamp the return address in white and a custom liner of a banana leaf detail was assembled inside (not shown). I was thrilled with the result and lived vicariously through the bride and groom during their romantic tropical getaway. Congrats Portia and Daniel!

Tropical Hawaiian Calligraphy Wedding Invitations by Cast Calligraphy /  Photo by Orange Photographie / Oh So Beautiful Paper

Thanks Anna!

Design and Calligraphy: Cast Calligraphy

Letterpress Printing: Birdwalk Press

Check out the Designer Rolodex for more tal­ented wed­ding invi­ta­tion design­ers and the real invi­ta­tions gallery for more wedding invitation ideas!

Photo Credits: Orange Photographie

Cozy Christmas Eve Wedding Invitations

Happy Monday everyone! Since it’s Christmas week and all, I thought it would be fun to share these cozy Christmas Eve wedding invitations from Lauren at Darling + Pearl! With metallic silver envelopes, burgundy ink, wool yarn to tie everything together, and gorgeous envelope calligraphy, these invitations are perfect for a winter gathering!

Christmas Eve Wedding Invitations by Darling & Pearl / Oh So Beautiful Paper

From Lauren: This invitation suite was inspired by Christmastime in the Northeast: warm and cozy sweaters, hot chocolate, seasonal baked goods, cocktails, friends and family all gathering around an adorable little christmas tree farm for a winter wedding. The invitation and reply cards are letterpress printed with and additional enclosure that adds a really great graphic element and keeps everything exciting.

Christmas Eve Wedding Invitations by Darling & Pearl / Oh So Beautiful Paper

Christmas Eve Wedding Invitations by Darling & Pearl / Oh So Beautiful Paper

The envelope calligraphy was done by Therese Swift Hahn of Bella Scrittura. Everything was wrapped in merino wool yarn (kinda like a little present) to lend another nod to the season and the envelope liners bring in dash of metallic silver that complements Therese’s work on the reply envelopes.

Christmas Eve Wedding Invitations by Darling & Pearl / Oh So Beautiful Paper

Christmas Eve Wedding Invitations by Darling & Pearl / Oh So Beautiful Paper

Christmas Eve Wedding Invitations by Darling & Pearl / Oh So Beautiful Paper

Thanks Lauren!

Design and Letterpress Printing: Darling + Pearl

Envelope Calligraphy: Therese Swift Hahn of Bella Scrittura

Check out the Designer Rolodex for more tal­ented wed­ding invi­ta­tion design­ers and the real invi­ta­tions gallery for more wedding invitation ideas!

Photo Credits: Darling + Pearl

The Gimlet

Many of the great classics are beautifully simple, and the Gimlet is no exception. Gin, lime cordial – and it should be lime cordial, which we’ll get to in a moment – and that’s pretty much it. This drink is somewhere between a Gin Sour and a Gin Old Fashioned and it’s all wonderful. – Andrew

The Gimlet Classic Cocktail Recipe / Liquorary for Oh So Beautiful Paper

The Gimlet

2 oz Dry Gin
1 oz Lime Cordial
1 dash Angostura Bitters

Combine all the ingredients in a mixing glass with ice and stir well. Strain into a chilled cocktail glass. Enjoy!

The Gimlet is a snappy little drink: it has both gin’s sharp herbaceous kick and lime cordial’s citrusy, tart zing. A dash of bitters just helps bring those flavors together and make them pop. Like the Manhattan or the Martini, there’s no real bad time for a Gimlet; they’re all-weather drinks.

The Gimlet Classic Cocktail Recipe / Liquorary for Oh So Beautiful Paper

Like I said: lime cordial. For a long while, ordering a Gimlet meant either that you were going to get a glass of gin with some lime juice and a bit of sugar, if you were lucky, or a glass of gin sweetened with a thick syrupy mess sold as “cordial.” Both would deprive you of real lime cordial’s tremendously refreshing, tongue-twisting sweet-tartness.

You can make lime cordial at home, somewhat laboriously, by zesting and juicing some limes, then adding an equal amount by weight of sugar to the juice, letting the whole thing sit for a day or two in a nonreactive vessel, and then straining out the zest. It’s delicious when fresh but, like I said, a lot of work. But for years, your only options were to make your own or buy a bottle of Rose’s, which dates all the way back to 1867 but for years has been made with barely any real lime in it at all. Fortunately, more and more purveyors of craft cocktail ingredients are starting to make and sell lime cordial with fresh, basic ingredients.

The Gimlet Classic Cocktail Recipe / Liquorary for Oh So Beautiful Paper

The Gimlet, despite its appearance in Betty Draper’s hand in more than one episode of Mad Men, has a rough-and-tumble origin. Sailors in the British navy were issued rations of lime or lemon juice to prevent scurvy. Back in 1867, one Lauchlan Rose figured out a way of preserving citrus juice for long sea journeys with sugar instead of rum, and the Rose’s I mentioned above was born. But sailors also got liquor rations, and it didn’t take long for them to put the two together. (I imagine sailors back then probably tried mixing pretty much anything they found anywhere in the world with booze.) So the Gimlet was basically a drunken sailor’s way of making his gin ration more palatable. Or his lime ration more exciting. Or both.

The Gimlet Classic Cocktail Recipe / Liquorary for Oh So Beautiful Paper

For the most authentic experience, we recommend picking a navy proof gin. “Navy proof” refers to the strength of the liquor; it’s a measure of the amount of alcohol in spirit needed to still ignite gunpowder that had been dowsed in the spirit. You know, a basic safety measure to ensure the ship could still fight even if its drunken sailors spilled their booze all over the gunpowder. The minimum is 114 proof, in contrast to the 80 proof that most spirits are bottled at today. So you’re going to get a wallop of flavor and booze and heat from a Gimlet made from navy proof gin. Which doesn’t sound too bad.

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Glassware by Liquorary

Photo Credits: Nole Garey for Oh So Beautiful Paper

Happy Weekend!

Happy Friday everyone! So, apparently I’m a wee bit crazy, because I decided that the last couple of weeks before Christmas was just the perfect time to completely gut and renovate the only full bathroom in our house. Ha! Actually, our contractor just happened to have an opening in his schedule (we’d been on the waiting list for 5 months), so I decided to just go for it. I’ve absolutely loathed our bathroom from the very first time we ever looked at our house, so I’m super excited to see it go – even if our house is a complete disaster zone at the moment. Our contractor is doing all the demo and pre-tile prep work for us, but we’re planning to do all the tiling. So my Dad is down from New Jersey this weekend to help with everything – wish us luck! I’ll be sharing the final results here in January and I can’t wait! But in the meantime…

Jill Rosenwald / Behind the Scenes via Instagram / OSBP

Love this behind the scenes peek from Jill Rosenwald via Instagram

…a few links for this weekend!

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That’s it for me this week! Check back a bit later for this week’s cocktail recipe – and I hope you all have a wonderful weekend! I’ll see you back here on Monday! xoxo