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Happy Friday everyone. Truth is, I’m having a really hard time keeping a smile on my face these days. Despite what some on the television news might want you to think, this shutdown does affect real people. My husband and several of our close friends are among the 800,000 federal government employees furloughed until the government reopens. With the shutdown, half our income immediately disappeared. No expectation of backpay and no idea when he might be allowed to go back to work. The last shutdown lasted nearly three weeks. I’m trying to look on the bright side of things and be thankful that our situation isn’t worse. I’ve also never been more grateful for leaving federal employment three years ago, so that I can at least continue to earn while Congress gets its act together. With all of this uncertainty, this is a pretty scary time for our family. But it has also gotten us thinking about some larger changes we’d like to make in our life. Changes that will help us live our life on our own terms, rather than the whims of politicians. But in the meantime…

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…a few links for your weekend!

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Check back soon for this week’s cocktail! I hope you all have a wonderful weekend, and I’ll see you back here next week! xoxo

Baby Essentials: Baby Blankets

Just after Sophie was born, her great aunt gifted us with a handmade quilt. It was such a meaningful gesture and is still one of my most treasured baby gifts. We take the quilt with us to the park, use it to bundle her up during the winter, and I’m sure we’ll come up with a thousand other uses as Sophie gets older. Along the way, we’ve accumulated a few additional blankets – lighter blankets for summer, heavier knit blankets for winter – that will last us well through Sophie’s childhood. Today I thought I’d share a few of my favorites!

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1. Yarning Made knit blanket; 2. Little Hip Squeaks; 3. blabla knit blanket; 4. PataPri gauze blanket; 5. Auggie cross-stitch quilt; 6. Donna Wilson

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Fall Apple Picking

I usually have mixed feelings about fall. Yes, I love the cooler weather, changing leaves, and fall holidays, but these are all reminders that winter is just around the corner. And I am not a fan of winter. This year, however, I’m welcoming fall with open arms. Sophie is just old enough to enjoy some of our favorite fall traditions and I think she’ll get a real kick out of Halloween. Last weekend we spent an afternoon out at one of our favorite local spots – Homestead Farm – to pick a few apples. They also have bales of hay for kids to play on, along with a few dozen goats, chickens, pigs, and a very disapproving alpaca. I can’t wait to go back for pumpkins in a couple of weeks!

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Photo Credits: Nole Garey for Oh So Beautiful Paper

Baby Essentials: The First Year

When we first created our baby registry last year, I really only focused on items that I thought we would need to get through the newborn phase. I didn’t even think about some of the things that Sophie would need after passing the three month mark! We were also living in a small apartment at the time, so we intentionally kept our registry to just what we thought was the most basic list of essentials. Now that Sophie is a year old, I thought it would be helpful to look back at the things that we did (and didn’t) need for that first year.

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1. Rock n’ Play; 2. Motorola wireless infant video monitor; 3. Jenny Lind crib; 4. Sealy soy foam mattress; 5. 4moms MamaRoo swing; 6. Miracle Blanket + Summer Infant SwaddlePod; 7. Auggie crib sheets; 8. Graco sound machine

Bassinet + Crib: We started with a separate moses basket, but once we discovered the rock n’ play Sophie slept in that until we transitioned her to the crib. I love the sweet vintage style of our Jenny Lind crib, and like most cribs it can be converted to a toddler bed.

Monitor + Noise Machine: The video monitor and sound machine are two of our absolute essential baby items. We registered for the video monitor based on Joy’s registry list and love it. When Sophie was a newborn we used the extreme rain setting on this iphone app, which seemed to help calm her down faster and soothe her to sleep, but now that she’s a bit older the waves setting on the Graco sound machine is just perfect.

Swings: We received this Fisher Price hand-me-down swing from my sister-in-law and absolutely loved it, even though it takes up quite a bit of space. However, the swing has been through my sister-in-law’s 3 kids and now Sophie, so it’s pretty much on its last legs. I’ve heard good things about the MamaRoo from 4moms and may go that route for our next baby.

Swaddle: We swaddled Sophie at night until she was nearly six months old. Most fellow moms rave about the Aden + Anais swaddle wraps, but it was just too much fabric for our tiny baby and she would always break free. My favorite combination was a Miracle Blanket swaddle underneath a zip-up swaddle. Totally breakout-proof! I recommend registering for three of each: one to use, one to have in the closet, and another in the wash.

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1. OXO high chair; 2. The First Years bottle brush; 3. Boon lawn drying rack; 4. VentAire bottles; 5. Munchkin mesh feeders; 6. Circo bath mitts; 7. 3 Sprouts towel; 8. Honest shampoo; 9. Dwell Studio bibs

High Chair: I never even thought to register for a high chair, but we ended up needing one when Sophie started solids around the six-month mark. Of course I wanted something well-designed, but also something that could be cleaned up with a simple wipe down (no fabric covers or anything that might require laundering). I’m a big fan of this OXO high chair.

Bottles + Cleaning: Everyone seems to have a different favorite bottle, and we ended up trying a few varieties before settling on these. We added the Boon drying rack after moving to our new house (where we have a bit more counter space). We could probably do without a separate drying rack, but it’s handy for keeping track of small bottle parts.

Bibs: We mostly used bibs when Sophie was a newborn, and then again a bit later when she was drooling up a storm while cutting her first tooth. We were gifted a set of these Dwell bibs, and I love how soft and absorbent they are!

What we don’t have or use: We don’t have a separate bottle warmer or sterilizer and have gotten by just fine without them. We did receive an infant tub, but Sophie didn’t particularly care for it and we found it kind of awkward to use, so we ended up just bringing her into the bath or shower with us. Now that she’s older she sits in the big tub (with a bath mat to keep her from slipping too much). Sophie’s favorite bath toys include a toothbrush, these foam bath stickers from Target, and empty shampoo bottles.

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1. Summer infant changing pad; 2. Honest diapers; 3. Earth Mama Angel Baby bottom balm; 4. Ubbi diaper pail; 5. vintage dresser; 6. Land of Nod changing pad cover

Changing Table + Diaper Pail: Because space is limited in Sophie’s nursery, we used a vintage dresser that my parents bought for me when I was a baby – similar to this one from Ruby Lane – in lieu of a separate changing table. The first drawer holds diaper supplies and smaller accessories like socks and tights, while the other three drawers hold clothing and pjs. I like the Ubbi diaper pail because it takes regular trash bags.

Diapers + Ointment: We use Honest diapers during the day and Pampers Baby Dry diapers for overnight. Sophie has never had a big issue with diaper rash, so we use this all-natural ointment and it works great for us!

What we don’t have or use: a wipes warmer or a separate tray to hold the changing pad. The changing pad simply sits on top of the dresser and attaches via a strap screwed into the back of the dresser.

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1. Baggu backpack; 2. Green Sprouts travel changing pad; 3. Ergobaby carrier; 4. Snap n’ Go; 5. Lotus travel crib; 6. Fisher Price activity chair; 7. Boppy newborn lounger

Diaper Bag: I invested in a not-too-frilly Kate Spade diaper bag, which I love for its multiple pockets and included changing pad but is sadly no longer in production. But when I’m out and about with Sophie, particularly if I’m carrying her or wearing her in the Ergo, I often switch over to my Baggu backpack. I also really love this diaper bag from Ikabags; just make sure you have a separate travel changing pad to take along for outings.

Baby Carrier: We love, love, love our Ergo! We take Sophie everywhere in the Ergo, and when she was a newborn she would snuggle down into the infant insert and go to sleep almost instantly. We also have a sling and moby wrap, but we haven’t used the sling much since Sophie turned 3 months old and I never figured out how to properly tie the moby wrap. I can’t recommend the Ergo highly enough.

Stroller + Car Seat: I’m actually still searching for our perfect stroller, so I’ll update this section if or when I find one. We received an infant car seat from my sister-in-law, so we purchased an inexpensive Snap n’ Go frame that we use whenever we need a stroller. Now that Sophie is almost at the 20 lb mark, we’re preparing to transition from an infant car seat to a convertible car seat. We’ve settled on the Britax Roundabout after reading reviews and talking with friends and family.

Travel Crib: Another omission from the registry list! I like this Lotus travel crib because it folds up into a carry-on size backpack, which is great for airplane trips.

Activity Chairs + Loungers: We received this activity chair from my sister-in-law, and while it’s not something I probably would have chosen to buy on my own, Sophie LOVED it! It kept her entertained for extended periods of time from about 8 weeks old until she started backwards-crawling around 8 months. We also used a Bumbo seat pretty regularly until Sophie started sitting on her own at 9 months. Finally, we also received a hand-me-down Boppy (the regular kind), and while we ended up using it primarily as a newborn lounger it was a pretty important part of Sophie’s first few months.

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1. Crane humidifier; 2. Baby toothbrush; 3. Gripe water + gas drops; 4. Hyland’s teething gel; 5. Infant thermometer; 6. Infant pain relief; 7. Gerber pre-folds; 8. NoseFrida

Gas + Pain Relief: Sophie never had colic, but like all babies she experienced some gas and tummy issues when she was around 2-3 months. Once I found out about gripe water, we started adding it to her bottles and her symptoms definitely improved. I wish I’d known about it sooner! When we need to use a pain reliever, we alternate between infant Tylenol and Advil depending on the situation, since Advil is an NSAID that can irritate the stomach.

Snot: Sophie caught her first cold just before she turned 7 months old, and the NoseFrida was the only thing that got us through those 10 days. It sounds awful, but it absolutely works. The humidifier also helps Sophie from getting congested during our dry winter months.

Misc: Gerber pre-folds are super absorbent and can be used for just about anything, from receiving blankets to cleaning up spills to drying baby bottoms. We inherited a pile from my sister-in-law and still use them regularly. Sophie didn’t really take to any traditional teething toys, but she loves to chew on her baby toothbrush along with our keys, wallets, and other household objects. We’ve been using Hyland’s teething gel regularly since she was around 6 months.

What we don’t have or use: infant nail clippers. I tried some out, but they were just too clumsy and I couldn’t see what I was doing enough to feel confident using them. Some people bite their babies’ nails, some people use cuticle scissors, I just use regular adult nail clippers since I’m most familiar with the feel. We also didn’t bother with a separate infant care or first aid kit, since we already had most of the individual pieces (and most hospitals send you home with a few of those pieces).

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That’s pretty much everything! I relied pretty heavily on the lists from Joy, Erin, and Christine when building my registry, so feel free to check those out for additional recommendations. I’ve also put together a Pinterest board with everything above along with a few alternative recommendations, which you can find right here.

Finally, while most of our registered items are easily available on Amazon or Diapers.com (yay for free shipping!), we chose Babyli.st as our registry so that we could include items from other online shops – it was perfect for us!

{happy weekend}

September is my big milestone month. Yesterday I celebrated my 32nd birthday. Sophie’s first birthday (!!!) is a week from today. On Sunday, Oh So Beautiful Paper will celebrate its 5th anniversary. Oh, and while I’m at it, Andrew and I celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary in May and I celebrated 3 years of self-employment in early July. Anyway, I normally reserve my goal setting for the end of the year, but I’ve been in an introspective mood these last few weeks. So, a few thoughts before we get to our weekly round up…

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The truth is: as many wonderful things happened in my 31st year, it has been quite a struggle. I’ve struggled to find my footing as a working mother, struggled to manage caring for my child with growing my business, and struggled to regain a sense of normalcy after our big move back in March. I made it through Sophie’s first year of life, but just barely. So today I’m looking forward to a new age and a new year, hopefully filled with a little less anxiety and a bit more peacefulness. I don’t like to focus on anything negative here because, well, this blog is my happy place, but like anyone else I need to grow and evolve. Reflect and make changes. I’d like to share some of those changes here, with all of you. I’ve always shared things that inspire me beyond invitations and stationery, but I’d also like to share a little bit more of me here. I mean, it’s been five years… it would probably be nice if you actually knew me, right? I don’t entirely know what that means just yet, but stay tuned!

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Image Credit: Todd Wendorff and Anna Zajac

As always, a few links for your weekend:

This week on Oh So Beautiful Paper:

A big welcome to the newest member of the Designer Rolodex: Julie Song Ink!

Check back soon for this week’s cocktail! I hope you all have a wonderful weekend, and I’ll see you back here next week! xoxo